How Do We See?
“For the Lord does not see as man sees: for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
I Samuel 16:7
I know you haven’t been counting, but how many times have you ignored or overlooked someone or a group of people based on how they looked? It’s not something we want to own up to, but I think we all have to plead, “Guilty.”
A number of years ago, I attended a conference with a group of women. A few of us sat together for the evening session, eagerly awaiting the speaker’s presentation. When she came onstage, we looked at one another with raised eyebrows. From the woman’s peasant look, we couldn’t believe she’d have anything worthwhile to say. Then she opened her mouth and began her presentation. We were flabbergasted at her brilliance from the first few minutes, and we came to respect the gifted anthropologist, no matter her plain-Jane look. We had it all wrong, judging on appearance.
Something similar happened when God sent Samuel to find a replacement for King Saul, who had overstepped his bounds by taking on priestly duties. God directed Samuel to Bethlehem to the house of Jesse to find the right person. Jesse had eight sons. He presented the first one, Eliab, to the prophet, who saw the impressive-looking young man and right away said, “Surely the Lord’s anointed is before me.” God said, “Don’t look at his stature, because I have refused him.” Seven sons passed before Samuel, and seven times God refused them. Samuel asked, “Do you have anymore sons?” Father Jesse said there was the youngest one, but he was out taking care of the sheep. Samuel asked to bring him in, and the “ruddy” bright-eyed, good-looking David came in and got the nod from God. He was chosen.. I don’t know how the brothers felt at that point, but it must have been a bit galling to see the runt of the family selected.
How did God choose the right person? He looked at the heart. If we don’t look “as God sees,” we can be dismissive of people who don’t measure up in our eyes. It happens in families where the one who seems destined for failure gets none of the push or the praise. Teachers also can look at appearances of skin color and family limitations and discourage a child from setting high goals. God looks past all handicaps and unfavorable circumstances and reads the heart. We are busy looking at outward appearance, when all the while God is at work looking deep into people and preparing them for glory now and later.
PRAYER: Lord, help me to look at others, who are made in Your image, as being capable of doing great service and accomplishing the highest good for Your kingdom.
Always,
Judith
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“While we look not at the things which are seen,
but at the things which are not seen.”
( I Corihthians 4:18)
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FARTEMA MAE FAGIN
“For I know the plans I have for you…..” Jeremiah 29:11
Family limitations can appear to be a barrier to a successful lifestyle. I was one of ten siblings. My parents struggled to meet our basic needs, but with God’s grace and my parent’s hard work, we made it to adulthood equipped to become responsible adults. As a teenager, I recall a discouraging comment a relative said to me. “I guess you’ll be like your mother, and have a house full of kids.”
I proved her wrong. God blessed me with two sons. I followed her accomplished academic career path, and excelled beyond her expectations.
God knows best.
God heard
Judith Nembhard
Some individuals attempt to spoil other people’s lives by seeing them as unworthy, Fartema, but as you referenced, God has plans for His own. He helps them overcome obstacles. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. JN