• Perception

    PERCEPTION: (noun) a mental impression  .  discernment  .  appreciation  .  realization  .  recognition  .  the way you think about  or understand  someone or something  .  impression  .  attitude  .  approach With the many synonyms that perception has,  it is fairly easy to get a good idea of what  the word means.  One of the definitions is “a mental  impression,”  and we constantly have mental impressions of one kind or another.   But can we be always sure that what we perceive is the reality in a given situation? Toward the end of last winter, I noticed that the Bradford pear tree in my front yard had whitish, scabby-looking bark that appeared…

  • Preciseness

    PRECISE:  (Adjective)  definitely or strictly stated  .  defined  .  carefully distinct  .  exact  .  accurate  .  unambiguous   Precise and precision have a variety of meanings, some of which are listed above.  Anyone who desires to be  an effective  writer  or speaker, which is the real goal of communication,  should make an effort to be precise. The language police, those individuals who are always watching for linguistic misdemeanors, ready to put the clamps on offenders, are not popular. They sometimes don’t have a welcome place at a party because they like preciseness  and are not bashful about  trying  to help others use the language effectively.  Looking at  the comments on…

  • Prestigious

    PRESTIGE: (Noun)  status  .  standing  . stature  .  reputation  .  renown  .  fame What comes to your mind when you think of the word prestigious?  Does it conjure up images of  things, or of people,  of position, or of groups?  Maybe all of the  above?  The word has a big draw for most people, although many will be very quick to say, “It doesn’t matter to me.” But the next time you are in a group of professionals, try to talk less and listen more and then come to your conclusion about whether prestige matters. I would like to believe that everyone who reads my weekly post has read my…

  • Labels

    LABEL: (Noun) description . identification . designation . epithet . mark . tag . category LABEL: (Noun) description, identification, designation, epithet, tag, mark The word label is a simple one, but it has a wide array of applications— among them record labels, warning labels, food labels, social labels—and it is this last example that I have chosen to focus on in this week’s post. In a society, a label makes a telling impact. You may recall reading Nathaniel Hawthorne’s The Scarlet Letter in which Hester Prynne of Salem Village was doomed to wear a label, a scarlet A on her bosom, to identify her as an adulterer. Whatever else Hester…

  • Obsolete

    OBSOLETE: (Adjective) no longer in general use  .  fallen into disuse  .  of a discarded or outmoded type  .  out of date The word for this week fits right into our modern lifestyle, where last year’s prized gadget or last month’s promoted approach to living has been thrown out the window, replaced by the new and the desirable. Obsolete should be the watchword for people who are forward-looking, or so we have been led to believe.  Admittedly,  some things do change and become obsolete without much outside social pressure. Things we once cherished, or felt we couldn’t live without,  are forgotten like museum pieces relegated to a permanent place in…

  • Ruminate

    RUMINATE: (Verb, Intransitive) contemplate  .  consider  .  ponder  .  think about  .  mull over  .  chew over This week’s word, ruminate, has an interesting background or etymology. Coming into the English language as it did from animal life,  the word  refers to ruminants, such as cows, who,  after satisfying themselves with a full stomach of grass, find a shady spot, regurgitate,  and ruminate, allowing  their meal to digest.  Today, in English  we have phrases such as “chew the cud” and “turn over in one’s mind.”  In our quiet times, a variety of ideas—wishes, dreams, desires—pass through our minds. Ruminate is an apt description of what we do at such times. A poem by…

  • Vulnerable

    VULNERABLE: (Adjective) open to attack or damage . susceptible Although the word vulnerable has been in the English language since the early 1600s, we might be inclined to consider it  a 21st Century word because of its current popularity and varied  applications, especially with regard to its meaning of “open to attack.”  Also, it is often used by therapists in reference to emotional wellness, some people being more vulnerable than others to the adverse effects of stress. Moreover, vulnerable is used to describe anyone who is willing to be open and frank in sharing his or her feelings or personal failings. But it is in a different context that I am…

  • Aspirations

    ASPIRE: (Verb) pursue . direct one’s hopes or ambitions toward achieving something I attend a small-group meeting on Monday evenings when we study the Psalms of David. Prior to our discussion this past Monday, the ice-breaker question was, “When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?” I said I wanted to be a teacher just like Miss Grant, whom I admired immensely.  A female member of the group said she wanted to be like Superman; she wanted to fly, and she made up stories about flying.  Now, isn’t that interesting?  A girl aspiring to be Superman! This is Women’s History Month. It is…

  • Rejection

    REJECT:  (Verb) refuse, decline, rebuff, dismiss, spurn The word reject raises red flags for most people, bringing to mind hurts that may go as far back as  childhood where there may have been that little group in grade school that refused to let us play with them at  recess time. We bump up against rejection in every stage of life. My early encounter with rejection occurred when I was about eleven years old and my father tried getting me into a Jamaican girls’ school with a little reputation. I had always performed at the top of my class,  many times placing first. When my neighborhood school  was about to undergo…

  • Divergent

    DIVERGENT (adjective) different, varying, dissimilar, alternative            Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,           And sorry I could not travel both            And be one traveler, long I stood           And looked down one as far as I could           To where it bent in the undergrowth. . . Robert Frost’s poem “The Road Not Taken” has been studied and puzzled over by generations of college sophomores in in American Lit.  They have usually looked for enlightenment on the symbolic meaning of particular words and lines, with their professors nudging them along. In the poem, the word I am interested in is diverged, which means “separated”  or “parted” ways. Frost’s speaker in the poem sees…